Being Understood in a Relationship
When people argue, they usually argue about little things that don’t seem to mean much of anything. These little things become larger and larger.
The biggest thing, and what it boils down to in most cases, is what people argue about is that they are not being understood. When a person believes or perceives themself as being understood, they will believe and perceive that the relationship is wonderful. So understanding your partner; explaining to your partner the way that you perceive and the way that you formulate your process of thinking and ideas. Explain to them with the idea and intent, and that the only the intent is to have them understand you so that it makes it easier for you and for them.