The Perfect Mate
A relationship reminder: Please remember that you will never find the perfect mate. You may find someone who is connected to you, but you must then determine whether this connection is mental, emotional, physical spiritual or combination of all. Too often one connection is misunderstood or desired to be the connection of something else.
For example, you may meet someone who you are physically attracted to and you believe that this is love. You may find someone you love and you may want to be physical with them. You find someone who mentally stimulates you and you want to be sexual with them. All these are confusing and not necessarily in alignment with what you are looking for. The greatest goal you can have as interacting with another human being is to find someone who is willing to grow and expand their own consciousness or their own remembrances and is willing to do it alongside you.
You will never find anyone who no longer has any issues. You will never find anyone who doesn’t have anything to learn. And know they will push buttons for you or themselves in order to learn it. But you will find someone who is interested in growing and giving up their old ways so that they can move forward mutually with you. This is not someone to be dependent on. This is not someone to rely on. This is someone to walk beside through your journey in the human form and you agree you may travel on the other side together and journey there also.
Too often people look for the perfect mate or someone who is exactly like them, and sometimes even someone who is opposite them. Neither is in balance. You want to find someone whose spirit desires the same growth your spirit desires and then form a human relationship which may take years to build to the way that you enjoy it where it runs smoothly because the ego-personality of both parties must integrate and learn how to interface. This way you can come together as one growing or you could be two separate growing, either way, you are walking the same path together having different journeys simultaneously.
If you are not currently in a relationship then the question for you becomes “Do you want one?” After you have decided this then your next question is “Why is it that you are not allowing a relationship to happen?” Followed by, “Why is it that you have not allowed the space for others or another person to come to you to see if you are a match for a relationship at this time in this form?”
If you are not currently ready for a relationship or a partner type relationship do not be concerned it may not be time for you. Be patient. Your time will come if you so choose it and it is an experience that your spirit has decided it wants in this lifetime.